Feelings
What is it that happens-whenever you are Happy or Sad......we get feelings....what are feelings? to me feelings are thoughts, emotions, which arise in our mind- and its internal to oneself...
What do feelings do....to me they probably trigger some hormones- which let us exhibit either Happiness or make us feel sad....but these feelings are only for a moment...not forever...
More than often in today time- feelings are also changing as the time changes by the clock...whether it is small or big- whether it is for our friends, colleagues, family- feelings have become a toy for play, where in the feelings change as the days and week....
Your surrounding changes your feelings, one moment you feel something else, and the other moment some other feeling crops in our head.....and we choose to exhibit our feelings as well- as per the thoughts which arise in our mind....not realizing that your changing feelings may disturb someone who is your well wisher...
What is going on in mine mind is.....have feelings become like commodity today?
Dont know looks to be a strong argument- with 90% people running after something- trying to achieve something, which is materialistic in nature- the people around and the situation- if it is in your favor- you tend to get good feeling else not so good....
In the same situation- one person may feel good, and ther other person may not feel good....so what do you do, how do you handle such situations, how do you manage the people involved- if both parties are your near and dear ones..?
Should feelings change? that is another interesting arguement!!!
If you like someone should you continue to like- or start disliking if there are reasons for the same? Let us take an ex- your spouse? if you are a person who has had love marriage or the traditional arranged marriage!! definitely you liked the person and that is the reason you have decided to get married to her- then over a period of time- should your feelings change for her- whether for the better or for the worse...is a secondary question....for such life long relationship- should one make opinion or understand the differences two people might have when they live together!! and work towards ensuring that they are not interrupting and interfering so much that the other person is becoming suffocated....worth thinking again,..,
As far as my own thoughts- one should take time while forming impressions and getting feelings for someone- but as much as possible not change the same every day- unless there is a big enough reason for the same...in today's time- one should be very patient and calm- and mentally strong to face this materialistic world- as a rock solid person- who would not deviate from the fundamentals of living a good life....and making most of the human form of livelihood....Its like loving and worshipping GOD....we have respectful feelings, we pay our humble obesciences to him- knowing that he is superior to all of us and he is suppose to take care of his children...but if something doesnt go right- we get upset even with GOD...and moment later- when things are fine...we again start loving him.....there are some things which shouldnt change- like feeling for GOD, your family, your close real friends.....for others...it would depend on how they are treating you and how you want to treat them.......
What do feelings do....to me they probably trigger some hormones- which let us exhibit either Happiness or make us feel sad....but these feelings are only for a moment...not forever...
More than often in today time- feelings are also changing as the time changes by the clock...whether it is small or big- whether it is for our friends, colleagues, family- feelings have become a toy for play, where in the feelings change as the days and week....
Your surrounding changes your feelings, one moment you feel something else, and the other moment some other feeling crops in our head.....and we choose to exhibit our feelings as well- as per the thoughts which arise in our mind....not realizing that your changing feelings may disturb someone who is your well wisher...
What is going on in mine mind is.....have feelings become like commodity today?
Dont know looks to be a strong argument- with 90% people running after something- trying to achieve something, which is materialistic in nature- the people around and the situation- if it is in your favor- you tend to get good feeling else not so good....
In the same situation- one person may feel good, and ther other person may not feel good....so what do you do, how do you handle such situations, how do you manage the people involved- if both parties are your near and dear ones..?
Should feelings change? that is another interesting arguement!!!
If you like someone should you continue to like- or start disliking if there are reasons for the same? Let us take an ex- your spouse? if you are a person who has had love marriage or the traditional arranged marriage!! definitely you liked the person and that is the reason you have decided to get married to her- then over a period of time- should your feelings change for her- whether for the better or for the worse...is a secondary question....for such life long relationship- should one make opinion or understand the differences two people might have when they live together!! and work towards ensuring that they are not interrupting and interfering so much that the other person is becoming suffocated....worth thinking again,..,
As far as my own thoughts- one should take time while forming impressions and getting feelings for someone- but as much as possible not change the same every day- unless there is a big enough reason for the same...in today's time- one should be very patient and calm- and mentally strong to face this materialistic world- as a rock solid person- who would not deviate from the fundamentals of living a good life....and making most of the human form of livelihood....Its like loving and worshipping GOD....we have respectful feelings, we pay our humble obesciences to him- knowing that he is superior to all of us and he is suppose to take care of his children...but if something doesnt go right- we get upset even with GOD...and moment later- when things are fine...we again start loving him.....there are some things which shouldnt change- like feeling for GOD, your family, your close real friends.....for others...it would depend on how they are treating you and how you want to treat them.......
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